How can I tell someone I don’t want them to come?

I’m having my birthday party with my friends in two days. But I didn’t realize Robert, a rather annoying autistic kid, was in the group chat. How can I tell him I don’t want him to come? Even if he wasn’t annoying, he’s not actually my friend. He’s Elizabeth’s friend.

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SW-User

Just let him come.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User Sounds like a waste of my time and energy.

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan What’s the big deal?

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User he’s very annoying and high maintenance

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan Well, the decent thing to do would be to deal with it and let him come. Maybe talk to his friend about it.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User Oh, I uninvited him. I think it’ll be fine. I only wanted to invite close friends, and he knows I’m not his close friend I think....

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan Ok.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User He said “no worries” and “bro it’s fine” so he seems to understand.
I didn’t expect him to respond in that way though. Hmm

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan I’d feel pretty shitty regardless.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User I guess I do a bit. But it’s how it is.

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan That was mean. But yeah that IS how it is ...what can you do eh?

MrBlueGuy

@ShaythePanTransMan Good movie. Your birthday is for you to have fun not to babysit someone your even really friends with. If people don't like it tough shit.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User I guess.
@MrBlueGuy that’s true too XD I think we need to be selfish sometimes. Also, he didn’t seem upset.
I still don’t know what we’re going to do exactly. My tastes in movies are a little strange compared to the others. They all like comedy and stuff and I only like psychological thrillers, documentaries, and weird shit.