Why does my best friend always think I'm rude when I'm just stating the facts? Okay so when I...

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Why does my best friend always think I'm rude when I'm just stating the facts?

Okay so when I told her about this guy I liked she was like, "Does he go to your high school?" I was like, "Hell no! I wish he did though." She said, "Jeez I was just asking. That was rude." I was like, "Well it's true." Then I explained the rest of...

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Zeuro · 26-30, F

The “hell no” was completely unnecessary. You can be direct and honest without being rude. A simple “no” would have sufficed. I have a feeling it was also your tone of voice that came off as rude

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UnlovedDaughter01 · 22-25, F

@Zeuro What difference does it make? It's the same answer. I should not have to apologize for my answer. I have nothing to be sorry for.

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@UnlovedDaughter01 you’re telling me that if someone offers me something like a glass of water, and I say “fuck no!” I’m not being rude because it means the same thing as “no thank you”? Vulgar reactions to benign questions are rude

UnlovedDaughter01 · 22-25, F

@Zeuro Well no I wouldn't say that. That's different.

abe182 · 51-55, M

She asked a yes or no question. You should answer with a yes or a no.

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UnlovedDaughter01 · 22-25, F

@Zeuro ok tell me then

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@UnlovedDaughter01 the point is saying “HELL NO” to a simple question like does someone go to your school is rude. It’s not the meaning of what you said, it’s how you said it.

UnlovedDaughter01 · 22-25, F

@Zeuro Oh I see. I guess I should have said it the right way but it's who I am. I'm a sweet person but not too sweet. I don't wanna come off as too nice

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