Girl talk. How do you deal with girl drama?

Sometimes it's easy to let things go. But it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. Sometimes, even after apologies are said, the feelings don't return to the way they were. Maybe it just needs time. I hope it just needs time.

But trust issues are things that I haven't perfected handling. It's disappointing when someone doesn't trust you enough not to mean them harm. And it's frustrating when you realize that by doing so, you end up not trusting them to put extra effort not to hurt you. In the end, you feel you want to stay away.

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ProdigalSummer · F

I chose my girlfriends carefully so there's no girl drama to begin with.

Casheyane · F

@ProdigalSummer Really? None whatsoever? Nil? Or just hidden?

ProdigalSummer · F

@Casheyane I have a core group of about 4 and there's no drama at all. We're all grown women with painful pasts and we value each other enough not to cause each other more pain.

Casheyane · F

@ProdigalSummer That sounds lovely :) I guess at my age, and knowing their lives without the loss of a loved one, it gives them an excuse to be immature. Sometimes, I want to escape that though. Experiences bring maturity. Maybe I'm not as mature as I claim to be. But sometimes when I see how they treat me and others, they remind me of my past.