how do you deal with losing a friend that was not really a friend to begin with

Focus on those who really are your true friends.

But then who knows? That person you lost could come back at some point. Don't be too sad. Do the things that can make you happy with people you love :)

If they were never really a friend, then it's no big deal.

I think finding the truth out about either is painful...

If they werent your friends why would you feel bad in the first place

It’s difficult, but you have do what is best for you. A not so good friend isn’t what you need in your life.

I like to refer to that as 'addition by subtraction'.😏

we sometimes mourn reality
and sometimes potential

You dont? Theyre not worth your time if they werent really your friend.

nothing.



they can get as far away as possible, which normally doesn't happen.


DAMMIT!