Was she rude?

So, I generally hang out with my friends on Friday nights because that is really the only day we are all available. This past Friday, however, I didn't hear a peep out of my friend after I had left her house that morning,(we did homework together) so I figured she just wanted to spend some time with her boyfriend, and I let them be. The day before, though, she was talking to me about how she was excited for a new movie coming out, and I said I couldn't wait to see it. She said, and I quote :"I think we're going to go on Tuesday, since that's the discount day." So, I naturally assumed that meant that I was invited to go with them, especially since this wasn't the first time we had all expressed interest in this particular film. Then, I received a message from her this afternoon, telling me to "Go see that movie! It's SOOO good." I asked her "I thought we were going to see it on Tuesday?" to which she said "My parents took me and my boyfriend to see it yesterday." Am I wrong for being hurt that she spend her Friday night at the movie that I presumed we were all going to see together next week? This also isn't the first time something like this has happened. It just hurts me because I have no one else to go with, and she knows that there is no way I would want to go see the movie alone, and that I'll probably not get a chance to see it anytime soon.

katielass · F

I think you need to understand that sometimes a couple just wants to be alone. It's nothing personal and it appears she did not see it the same as you did but obviously was not intending to hurt you. Let it go and if you want to see it, see it. No crime in going alone.

marilynmichelle · F

@katielass I completely understand that. It just hurts that they haven't seemed to want to spend time with me lately. It's usually we go to dinner, and then they leave and don't want to do anything after, whereas we used to spend hours at each other's houses playing games and having a good time.