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Was she rude?

So, I generally hang out with my friends on Friday nights because that is really the only day we are all available. This past Friday, however, I didn't hear a peep out of my friend after I had left her house that morning,(we did homework together) so I figured she just wanted to spend some time with her boyfriend, and I let them be. The day before, though, she was talking to me about how she was excited for a new movie coming out, and I said I couldn't wait to see it. She said, and I quote :"I think we're going to go on Tuesday, since that's the discount day." So, I naturally assumed that meant that I was invited to go with them, especially since this wasn't the first time we had all expressed interest in this particular film. Then, I received a message from her this afternoon, telling me to "Go see that movie! It's SOOO good." I asked her "I thought we were going to see it on Tuesday?" to which she said "My parents took me and my boyfriend to see it yesterday." Am I wrong for being hurt that she spend her Friday night at the movie that I presumed we were all going to see together next week? This also isn't the first time something like this has happened. It just hurts me because I have no one else to go with, and she knows that there is no way I would want to go see the movie alone, and that I'll probably not get a chance to see it anytime soon.
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SW-User
I think there's a problem with communication there...
Seems she wanted to be with her boyfriend... alone. 馃槄
@SW-User It feels like that's all she ever wants now. I always give them their space and never am the first one to ask if they want to hang out because I know they need their space. It just hurts that they haven't actually asked me to simply hang out in a really long time.
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@marilynmichelle I understand. Sadly some people... just feel like being more with their boyfriends and neglect their friends badly, if this is something that happens regularly, talk to her, and the best thing you can do, is seeing new/ other friends.
@SW-User I mean, she doesn't neglect me that much, honestly. We have a lot of the same classes and her and I see each other all day long. I just miss hanging out with both of them
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@marilynmichelle then simply talk to her :D