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Was she rude?

So, I generally hang out with my friends on Friday nights because that is really the only day we are all available. This past Friday, however, I didn't hear a peep out of my friend after I had left her house that morning,(we did homework together) so I figured she just wanted to spend some time with her boyfriend, and I let them be. The day before, though, she was talking to me about how she was excited for a new movie coming out, and I said I couldn't wait to see it. She said, and I quote :"I think we're going to go on Tuesday, since that's the discount day." So, I naturally assumed that meant that I was invited to go with them, especially since this wasn't the first time we had all expressed interest in this particular film. Then, I received a message from her this afternoon, telling me to "Go see that movie! It's SOOO good." I asked her "I thought we were going to see it on Tuesday?" to which she said "My parents took me and my boyfriend to see it yesterday." Am I wrong for being hurt that she spend her Friday night at the movie that I presumed we were all going to see together next week? This also isn't the first time something like this has happened. It just hurts me because I have no one else to go with, and she knows that there is no way I would want to go see the movie alone, and that I'll probably not get a chance to see it anytime soon.
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LyricalOne · F
Gotta stop assuming things and get specific with your plans. Obviously you weren't on the same page.
@LyricalOne It feels like we never are.
LyricalOne · F
@marilynmichelle Then you should talk about it. Again, don't assume things. Find out what's going on.
@LyricalOne I just don't want to start drama..
LyricalOne · F
@marilynmichelle Telling her how you feel isn't drama, it's honest communication. Just don't get into blame mode and go on the attack. There's nothing wrong with saying you felt a little hurt and ask if maybe you misunderstand about the movie.
@LyricalOne I guess you're right. She just seems to have a habit of turning the tables anytime I try to open up about things like that.
LyricalOne · F
@marilynmichelle At least you'll know you did everything you could. Then if you keep coming up on the short end of the stick, you might want to rethink the friendship.
@LyricalOne That's true. It's just hard because I don't really have any other close friends.
LyricalOne · F
@marilynmichelle Talk to her about the movie situation. See how she reacts. That might help you determine whether she is in fact a close friend. You've already said this isn't the first time something similar happened.

And don't worry, if you like and respect yourself, there will be other friends.