Do you miss your ex best friend?

The truth is I miss her company and how lively she is, she protects me in times of trouble, be there when I'm sad or lonely...but I stopped talking to her three years ago and I have no plans to talk to her again..never in my life all because she was sick. A sickness that can ruin relationships..I hope she can cope it..she is such a risk and I decide put her down and just dropped..

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SW-User

:/

My best friend became really distant when I needed her, now I wonder, she surely thought I was sick too, because I was really depressed. And all I needed was some nice non judgemental company... I have the sense she got tired of me. And then didn't care a friendship of years and years break.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SW-User you both need time apart or not to cling on to each other..give it a try...unlike my case with my ex bff has something to do with psychiatric help..

SW-User

@Sepia sadly she is a psychiatrist.
And no, when one is down and she leaves clearly means she doesn't care. I never do that. It's about being caring.
I contacted her after some time, even feeling sad because I thought that maybe I had become a burden for her. And that she can count with me for everything she wants.
But honestly... the thought of being a burden for someone that is your best friend, doesn't seem to make sense. She said she wishes the best and that was all. Never never things will be the same, and she doesn't contact me, even knowing I was the last to contact her. And honestly I have found online caring people that don't make me feel like a burden. Friendship is a two way street. And someone that simply let everything to be destroyed like that, simply doesn't want to my friend anymore... And with time I've learned to not give it any importance. Great I met other caring people.

SW-User

@Sepia and I say sadly because for her profession she started judging me as a sick person. Not as a caring friend.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SW-User that's true..does she favour her career over relationships?..that can be a factor

Sepia · 36-40, F

@Sepia she can say it with a care...if you are that sick and the profession she has now..the hurting part is that she did not help you :(