My friends are hanging with my bf without me?

So on New Years I introduced my two friends (who are kinda dating) to my boyfriend. They love him. Today they made plans to hang with him. I asked if I was tagging along, one of them said that they're not going to add me because they don't want plans to change...so now I'm feeling excluded. And very lonely.

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looking4thesun · M

Well just why would your bf go without you? Time to dump him

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@looking4thesun He wanted me to come. I practically made him go cuz I know how much he wants to be friends with my friends. I'm not going to stop him. He'd prefer me being there but I want everyone to be happy. My two friends are happy to hang with him, he's happy he gets to meet knew people, and I'll be happy when he comes back home later.

looking4thesun · M

@ManicMicah that just don't fly.

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@looking4thesun well I'm letting it cuz I'm the bigger person who wants everyone to be happy. even though he does want me there, he still wants to hang out with them. I'm not going to make him stay home with me

looking4thesun · M

Everyone is not happy. You aren't and he should never have gone without no matter what you say

looking4thesun · M

I would never do that to a gf evet

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@looking4thesun I care about him so I let him go. I wouldn't expect him to let me go with his friends all the time anyway. There are times we're with friends, there are times we're together alone, and they're times we're together with friends.

looking4thesun · M

@ManicMicah whatever, you're just making excuses because you're worried about losing him

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@looking4thesun i'm honestly not worried. i'd only be worried if he were fucking my two friends.