Do you have it in your heart to forgive and forget?

I live in such a way that I can be reasonably confident that people's lives will be at least a little worse without me. Then, if they treat me badly, they have to deal with that.

I find forgiveness, as a virtue, to be over-rated, and forgetting is foolish. But the important thing is to know thy self, and act in accordance to whatever brings you as a person closest to a life well lived.