This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
friedchickenwing · 22-25, F
friendship. There were many
-One person was clingy and narcissistic and would only come after me to tell the same stories about themselves and their crush which they knew I disliked. I dropped countless clues I wanted to be left alone but they'd ignore it and keep prattling on while standing 1 foot from me.
-Another person, I'm pulling away slowly because he turns everything I say into a debate. He's unhappy and because he disapproves of my critical nature (never to the person's face of course but I complain a lot about people I find less considerate than me in private chats), it's like he's on the lookout for anything I say he can possibly be defensive or condescending or aggressive about. He only does it to me and it's alienating to see him treat me this way and then turn around and treat everyone else differently. He's one of those people who thinks that only his feelings are correct and doesn't question them.
-One person was just flat out abusive. She's not very conventionally attractive and had a crush on my old crush. She was very misogynistic, flat out made remarks about female inferiority, and said she didn't respect our feminine-voiced student teacher because 'she doesn't respect herself and talks like she's crying'. She would always make dumb snarky comments (ex: I'd ask "Is X why you want to take this class?" and she'd say attempt to be sarcastic, throw me this look and say, "No, it's because I want to take the class". Like well duh.) and make snide remarks about my appearance and once threw a pear at my head.
There were many others but they just faded out of my life as opposed to me deliberately avoiding them.
-One person was clingy and narcissistic and would only come after me to tell the same stories about themselves and their crush which they knew I disliked. I dropped countless clues I wanted to be left alone but they'd ignore it and keep prattling on while standing 1 foot from me.
-Another person, I'm pulling away slowly because he turns everything I say into a debate. He's unhappy and because he disapproves of my critical nature (never to the person's face of course but I complain a lot about people I find less considerate than me in private chats), it's like he's on the lookout for anything I say he can possibly be defensive or condescending or aggressive about. He only does it to me and it's alienating to see him treat me this way and then turn around and treat everyone else differently. He's one of those people who thinks that only his feelings are correct and doesn't question them.
-One person was just flat out abusive. She's not very conventionally attractive and had a crush on my old crush. She was very misogynistic, flat out made remarks about female inferiority, and said she didn't respect our feminine-voiced student teacher because 'she doesn't respect herself and talks like she's crying'. She would always make dumb snarky comments (ex: I'd ask "Is X why you want to take this class?" and she'd say attempt to be sarcastic, throw me this look and say, "No, it's because I want to take the class". Like well duh.) and make snide remarks about my appearance and once threw a pear at my head.
There were many others but they just faded out of my life as opposed to me deliberately avoiding them.