It bothers me now that I remember how many of my SW international friends married foreign men
Only for those men to turn out to be total trash.
Abandoning them and basically traumatizing them..and each time I could see the warning signs long before my friends make the move or it gets intimate. They ask me for advice then ignore it.
From women who get abandoned by passport bros, to women who move into foreign countries and get stuck with abusive men with no one to turn to. They get trapped..
It sucks.