How should I react to a friend that didn't keep my secret after she promised to

I told a friend of mine a secret and she promised to never tell anyone but she did.

I don't make friends very easy and i like her like a sister but i can't believe she told someone what i said after she promised not to

What would you do?

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ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M

I'd first rule out misunderstandings. Do you know what she revealed was secret? Did she understand that what she revealed was part of the secret? How deliberate was the revelation? Did she deliberately go to someone and say exactly what you said? Did she just accidentally blab? Did someone just read her body language and figure it out? Might she have felt some kind of pressure to break her promise once she knew what the secret was?