A van with some men in it just drove past me shouting horrible stuff at me

Men are so scary/aggressive so much of the time, I find them really hard to be around (there’s some nice guys on here, don’t get me wrong.) I prefer having girls as friends, but am I just in a feedback loop if I don’t step out of my comfort zone.

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Husher

🙂

Strongtea · 22-25, M

No, not at all, you seem a nice person. 😊👍@Husher

Husher

@Strongtea i make it a habit to step out of my comfort zone, I suggest the same.
Sometimes its best not to do something tho
People resist change

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hey thanks, I know I should get uncomfortable sometimes, it feels scary to do it though. Baby steps I suppose@Husher

Husher

@Strongtea you're welcome frien maybe try being comfoetable so you don't fret every time it's true to do it at your own pace in enough steps

Husher

@Strongtea I care about you, and it’s hard for me to see you hurting. I know I can’t fully understand what you’ve been through, but I want to.
Sometimes like I want to offer something that might ease the weight you’re carrying—but I also don’t want to push you.
If I ever come off that way, I’m sorry. I just believe in you, and I hope that one day, when you feel safe enough, you’ll take a step—not because I want you to, but because you’re ready.
And when that day comes, I’ll be right here.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

That is incredibly kind, thankyou so much!@Husher