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I guess I've been shit talked to the point of losing friends...

I wish people could see how much work it takes to befriend someone who talks badly about others. Keeping those kinds of people happy means disregarding yourself. Not to mention that if they talk about others, they'll talk about you too, as soon as you aren't following their narrative.

All I can say is, oh well. I stand by my own character. I know who I am and I don't compromise my own morals for the favor of people who flip, flop and switch up their personality to get people on "their side"...

There are no sides. People don't always get along and that's okay. But the he said-she said, I'm confused why as adults, we don't know better or see deeper into what that made up drama creates. Division.

But what else are humans more spectacular at than division?

Still love y'all. Peace.
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What people who gossip incessantly don’t get is, if they’re talking that badly about people we both know (especially if they still interacting with them) how can I not wonder what they’re telling them about me ? It’s a habit that erodes trust. 🥺

That’s just common sense, imho.
@bijouxbroussard Exactly this. It's all founded on dishonesty. It's all behind the back. I feel for people who fall for it... And hope they don't get too hurt when it's their turn to be the bad guy.
Not sure whats up. And that's ok

I'm your friend though. Don't doubt that
@Bexsy I never doubt you. There's a few on here I can tell are real deal and you're definitely one of them. Love ya
@ScreamingFox love ya too
Doesn't sound like much of a friendship to me . Sounds like you're better off without the drama they have caused .
@catastrophecarnival yeah I'm good. Its the ones that stick around with you that matter 🖤
Sevendays · M
Just keep being who you are. We love you too.
@Sevendays I can't be anyone else even if I try lol thank you. You're stuck with me
Lol
Sevendays · M
@ScreamingFox that’s good
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@PaleandPolluted I don't notice it happening often because I'm kinda shut in, but it happens too often for sure. I don't understand the respect for it either, but people have been gossiping for centuries lol
TheShanachie · 61-69, M
I am your friend
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Why would anyone harass you 🥺
@SwampFlower I share my feelings too much. I whine and complain and don't get better when people encourage me.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
@ScreamingFox Sounds like a them problem.
@SwampFlower it is lol but I'm not going to play the game, I forfeit, so I lose people sometimes.
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