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Kind of awkward and uncomfortable, friend said he was DTF… 🥴

I was hanging with 2 friends a male and a female friend and we got to drinking but then we kinda ran out of alcohol so me and my guy friend walked to the liquor store that’s like a 3 or 4 minute walk away and he bought more vodka and I bought some ice cream. When we were heading back to my apartment we were chatting, he was asking me about escapades (aka hookups) I’ve had, being already a bit drunk I was happy to blab a little. As we were close to being back at the apartment he basically said that if I ever wanted to hook up with him he was down. He was like “I don’t mean to be weird but…” I didn’t really react much, I was just kinda like “mhmm k” and then switched to a completely different topic. I think he chose to bring that up cause he knew I was a lil drunk 👀. He’s like, idk… like he’s a good looking guy, conventionally attractive, but I’m not attracted to him. I’m not sure what it is, but I think it’s something about his personality. Also maybe the fact that he’s a massage therapist? You’d think that would maybe be like oooooh but it just makes me feel weird. Also the fact that he’s a friend, like if I’m friends with someone first the thought of getting with them makes me a little queasy, even if I am attracted to them.
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Yeah that lack of chemistry is a big red flag to not try that one.
It will only make things so crazy awkward after a short fashion.
Better to tell him he's great looking but for some reason your not into him.
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Trusting your gut and your level of attraction is always right. Many ways an encounter can go if it’s not truly wanted and done when everyone’s sober.
YoMomma ·
Was he also drunk? Just be careful because I've heard of some girls being raped by guys they thought were friends.. you'd think if a guy was attractive they wouldn't have trouble finding a relationship but some of them have bad repulsive personalities .. do you think he usually feels that attraction to you or was it just a drunk thing?
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@YoMomma I’ve low key gotten the vibe that he was interested before then, and he didn’t drink that much cause he had to drive home after. His personality isn’t repulsive or anything, he’s a nice guy (not a “nice guy”), chill dude, fun to talk to. I’m not exactly sure why I’m not about it. Maybe I would had been had I known him in a different context, I think it’s mainly because we’re friends that I’m like mhmm no.
YoMomma ·
@Zeuro ah
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
99 percent of the time, a guy you're "just friends" with wants to hook up with you. It's just in their nature to constantly think about where they can stick their willy next, not considering any of the repercussions it would have.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@KittenSmitten0 I've had some veeeery weird encounters irl with people like that lol!
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@KittenSmitten0 that literally has nothing to do with my response so do you care to explain?
KittenSmitten0 · 26-30, F
@Notsimilarreally To you? No, welcome to the internet. 💀😂 And it actually does so yikes.
IanAll · M
Tell him straight, you like him as a friend but nothing more. That way everybody knows where they stand
Madmonk · M
A bird in the hand…
humsns are trouble
KittenSmitten0 · 26-30, F
🥴 congrats welcome to having three holes and legs
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@KittenSmitten0 technically 4 holes, can’t forget the urethra

 
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