Losing a best friend

So my bsf of 4 whole years, who i was the closest with wanted to cut ties w me. Idk why she wanted that. She just said she didn’t liked our friendship as much as before. We had a group w other friends and she left it w/o saying anything and that made me upset. All that friendship and emotional bound just for her to leave it w/o saying anything? I do try to understand her as well and not to get too harsh on her, that’s why i ended our argument with saying she should do what she wants to do. For a month ago she lost her childhood best friend and i saw the news twi days after and she was upset abt it. I felt so guilty and bad abt that mistake but didn’t do it on purpose. We were over it but i think she wasn’t. Idk guys. What do u think abt this?

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HealingInSilence · 22-25, M

Maybe she's going through something and she's not just telling anyone about it, you know, secret battles that we fight in our heads.

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@HealingInSilence exactly! That’s why i didn’t questioned it too much! Maybe she just needs that time. What hust hirts me is she was a bit rude even tho i tried my best.

HealingInSilence · 22-25, M

@playingmybeautifulviolin That's what bottling up emotions inside does to a person, one day when they've had enough, they burst out with anger. You have done your part, but maybe you could try one more time to reach to her and see if she opens up to you.

playingmybeautifulviolin · 16-17, F

@HealingInSilence i mean i did try that a lot but she really don’t wanna talk to me. So im tryna give her some space maybe then she’ll be okay to talk abt it.