I prefer to get to know people in the public space.
LotusWeb · 31-35, F
@OlderSometimesWiser Same, but if you live in an overpopulated yet lonely place like London it can be easier said than done.
@LotusWeb Lol….. meant the public side of SW.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I keep most of my engagements with people here in the comments.
CookieCrisp · F
@Starcrossed i was going to say that same thing
helenS · 36-40, F
I've never "DM'ed" anyone. All I ever did was replying to DMs I received, and these came almost exclusively from male SW members.
raqqq · 18-21, F
Every female account that messages me is clearly a dude that thinks they can get something out of me just cause they have an F next to their name.
LotusWeb · 31-35, F
I guess I'd better make more posts then, to get some cool people to my comments!
Gingerbreadspice · F
I’ve had private chats with a few women here. Some are just looking for other women to chat with or relate to. Some start a conversation because I answer their post with something in common to them. The longer you’re here the more that’ll likely happen at some point. I don’t start conversations, I answer if I know the user or they seem interested in asking a genuine question or they seem nice.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
A lot of females here are really males.
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SW-User
If you build it they will come.
Samek · 36-40, M
@SW-User I concur.
I don’t message anyone and I don’t like when people message me lol
A lot of the times it’s been hours since they sent a message and when I finally message back, they’re not online and I don’t have the patience lol.
A lot of the times it’s been hours since they sent a message and when I finally message back, they’re not online and I don’t have the patience lol.
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Yea, using the term "gal" very lightly.

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Most girls here are guys pretending to be girls 😂
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User Most guys here are pretending to be attractive 😏

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I get to know people on posts. That’s 99% of my interactions here.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@LotusWeb I hope you can find some friends here 🩷
LotusWeb · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 Thanks fire, me too!
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@LotusWeb You’re welcome 🩷