Struggling to make friends over the internet 😅

Hey! Bit of a sad post, so don't judge me, lmao. I have been on this site for a couple of weeks now, and I am struggling a little bit to make any worth while connections with people. My DM's are just full of guys hitting on me, or asking creepy questions. Now, don't get me wrong, am I entirely innocent myself? Nope. BUT, I'm a bit sick of it and I'm just looking for someone to chat with on a regularish basis because I'm so bad at this 😂😂

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CountScrofula · 41-45, M

So the best way to make friends on here is to talk with folks on Q&A and respond to stuff regularly. You'll get a rapport with someone and can take it to PMs and develop a better relationship that way.

The problem is there's like... a few dozen guys on here who will check for women who are online, and immediately start sexually harassing them. Loads of completely decent dudes on here, but the shitty ones are noisy and will come to you first.

Genuinely, just don't accept PMs from men on here you haven't had some time to get to know in public first.

It fucking sucks, I wish it was different, but its just a hazard of social media at this point.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

^ this

Fluffybull · F

@CountScrofula Good advice 👍