How are you ?

In a single sentence not less than five words.Kindly avoid using ok, good or fine .

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Miserable. I crave physical contact, the kind of hug that drives away frustration and helps dealing with pain and inner tension better.

helenS · 36-40, F

@CrazyMusicLover Please what is it that makes it difficult for you to get in [physical] contact with people?

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@helenS They usually want more than that. I'm fine with hugs, a bit of cuddling and that's it. It seems like that for most that's just some kind of foreplay for more, either emotionally or physically.

helenS · 36-40, F

@CrazyMusicLover ... and that would be something you don't want or need?

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@helenS Not at the pace that's normal for other people. I need to get used to someone gradually to be comfortable with emotional and physical closeness. Or I wasn't meeting the right people.

helenS · 36-40, F

@CrazyMusicLover Thank you for being so open!

assemblingaknob · 31-35, F

@CrazyMusicLover same b

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@CrazyMusicLover It was definitely true for me in marriage. Never any time for cuddling or the kind of feel good hug you're talking about.