If one of your guy friends tried to tell you that it's too soon to get married to your boyfriend he obviously has some type of feelings for you right?

Not true, he may really just feel like it's too soon for a big decision like that

Or you're missing a lot of red flags with the bf, and he's hoping to buy you more time to finally see it yourself.

No, people can be friends and look out for each other without romantic feelings involved. What if you're missing red flags that are apparent to others? They wouldn't want to see you get into something bad that could be prevented.

How are these even serious questions lol

You don’t have to have romantic feelings for someone to care about them

No maybe he doesn't feel your boyfriend is the nicest or most genuine of people

I think you're on to something there.

No.