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Yes, I have found it is better to have a small circle of friends or a Few tiny circles rather than a large friend base. There were too many Hassles , issues And other things and it became very expensive. 9 out of 10 People wouldn't show up for my birthday or events , but I'd always be there for all of their events And I always got all the excuses. When you have 30 girls celebrating 30 birthdays sometimes 2 or 3 times for each person It gets expensive And I'm the kind of girl that made sure I was there for almost everything I didn't expect Gifts or money back when I give I give with my whole heart but I at least expected People to be there for me too And it hurts. So I cut out a lot of people They get the Instagram and Facebook birthday messages now and the very true blue few are in my circle I'm much happier.