What's up with some people these days
Okay... 3 stories.
I called a friend and asked if she would come over to me and we can go out and head to the cinemas to watch a movie. We don't live near each other, but seeing as I always drive to her- which is a 30-minute drive- I thought it would be nice that she made the effort to come to me.
She agreed and everything seemed fine... But a couple of days before, she messaged me and said not to worry about it, and that I can see the movie on my own and she'll just wait until it went on to Disney Plus... I mean, it wasn't really about the movie, it was more about spending time with her. But I think it was the whole- travel- situation, that she didn't want to come.
I was rather annoyed and of course, like everyone else, we rant (like on here), and I spoke to another friend who was aware of this other person. They said that they'll go with me and that was great. One whole week went by and the day before the event, I asked if they were still good for the movies and then they just plainly said to me, "oh, I'm sorry but I realised that I have something on".
I'm mad about that because they did something similar like the other person... It also took them a week to tell me that they had something on? And I was the one who had to ask them? Do they not use a calendar? I was pretty damn annoyed.
A work friend asked me if I was going to the gym one day and I told them that I was, but I was going at 7pm because I'll be catching up with someone around 4pm. She said that was fine, and that we can go together to the gym.
When I got back home, I instantly messaged her and said that I should be around at 7:30pm, which isn't a hassle because we usually head out when the other person is good to go.
She messaged back and said that she had already gone... She can do whatever she wants, and that's fine, but to me, I found that what she did was rather rude. She didn't even think to message me to tell me not to stress because she was going in on her own. I would have been waiting for her in the gym. She didn't even apologize.
I called a friend and asked if she would come over to me and we can go out and head to the cinemas to watch a movie. We don't live near each other, but seeing as I always drive to her- which is a 30-minute drive- I thought it would be nice that she made the effort to come to me.
She agreed and everything seemed fine... But a couple of days before, she messaged me and said not to worry about it, and that I can see the movie on my own and she'll just wait until it went on to Disney Plus... I mean, it wasn't really about the movie, it was more about spending time with her. But I think it was the whole- travel- situation, that she didn't want to come.
I was rather annoyed and of course, like everyone else, we rant (like on here), and I spoke to another friend who was aware of this other person. They said that they'll go with me and that was great. One whole week went by and the day before the event, I asked if they were still good for the movies and then they just plainly said to me, "oh, I'm sorry but I realised that I have something on".
I'm mad about that because they did something similar like the other person... It also took them a week to tell me that they had something on? And I was the one who had to ask them? Do they not use a calendar? I was pretty damn annoyed.
A work friend asked me if I was going to the gym one day and I told them that I was, but I was going at 7pm because I'll be catching up with someone around 4pm. She said that was fine, and that we can go together to the gym.
When I got back home, I instantly messaged her and said that I should be around at 7:30pm, which isn't a hassle because we usually head out when the other person is good to go.
She messaged back and said that she had already gone... She can do whatever she wants, and that's fine, but to me, I found that what she did was rather rude. She didn't even think to message me to tell me not to stress because she was going in on her own. I would have been waiting for her in the gym. She didn't even apologize.
