Friends, and what do they mean for you?
I have a friend who once thanked me for him being alive, now he won't talk. That actually follows patterns of I know of him, when he is with a woman, he knows no one but her and they get tired of him and he then he needs a friend. I've been that friend, helped him from his once suicide watch, and now if I call him, dead end.. you have reached (voicemail)
Yet you know when his life blows up again, he'll be reaching for you. When do I cut the ties? I don't want to, he is a dear friend, accepting flaws I see, but somewhere it becomes he is selfish, not seeing how others have cared, once his needs are fulfilled he forgets, and if I forgive and forget, when there were times I could have used him, I'm giving him carte blanche to carry on his reckless ways.
Yet you know when his life blows up again, he'll be reaching for you. When do I cut the ties? I don't want to, he is a dear friend, accepting flaws I see, but somewhere it becomes he is selfish, not seeing how others have cared, once his needs are fulfilled he forgets, and if I forgive and forget, when there were times I could have used him, I'm giving him carte blanche to carry on his reckless ways.
