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I am shocked to learn someone i thought of as a good friend here

He confessed to me that he was the one attacking me on my other profile behind my back. He had this poisonous thought about me because he felt i made him feel inadequate. I asked him why would he feel that because i ensured i always responded to him.

His logic was he wanted to be this big man on threads.

He said he even was abusive publicly to me but i laughed it out and it outraged him (because i thought he must be joking as usual because i trusted my friend can't abuse me seriously).

He was in fact one of the few people I used to chat regularly with and we used to mostly joke around.

Whatever he did behind my back was noticed by a friend of mine who he wouldn't name and that friend of mine said to him that he doesn't deserve my friendship and that he has a small mind.

Today he wanted to come clean.

He confessed to me that he even reported my other profile which i never understood then who was attacking my profile while he continued to talk normally like a friend to me then. It was such a harassment on my other profile that i had to create this new account.

He apologises today and says he is a backstabbing prick but surprisingly no negative thought comes to my mind about him because I'm so shocked that i am still processing it.

So many months of regular chatting, sharing and joking and when he does this bold confession today how am I expected to react ?

I am definitely not angry. Am i disappointed? No. Am i hurt? I don't know. But am i too shocked to feel anything? Yes.

Do i feel foolish? Yes.

Edit: He messaged me this just now. Is this for real?


Edit: with consent
Unlearn41-45, M
Sounds like an insecure man trying to get back at you indirectly. That's really pathetic...is he from India?
Unlearn41-45, M
@SW-User to each their own. I like to keep my privacy on internet...
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@Unlearn nope not getting back at me he is just a mental case that鈥檚 weak nope not india
Barefooter2546-50, M
It's probably an insecure little man. Lots of people make up phony stories or profiles about themselves all over the internet. Don't let them get to you. Here, have some coffee. 鈽曪笍馃檪
Barefooter2546-50, M
@SW-User Stay genuine and real. What I write on here is the truth and real. I never write a fake profile or pretend someone I am not. We can learn more about each other by keeping it real.
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Barefooter2546-50, M
@SW-User It's always good to be cautious.
JaneDoe23F
He clearly has issues and you don't deserve that disrespect. If I were you, I'd block him and move on. Who needs that drama?
JaneDoe23F
@SW-User it is always ok to remove someone from your life for your well-being 馃槉
@JaneDoe23 I myself did block him. totally done with people like that
@JaneDoe23 i did block him. and honestly i鈥檓 okay.
Reading all of this is baffling but not surprising at all:/ Like I'm pretty speechless and also wtf at the same time.
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Virgo7961-69, M
A big man on SW, what does that even mean馃槀
Virgo7961-69, M
@SW-User seems mental.
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Virgo7961-69, M
@SW-User was just my thought on the matter.
Joshua1984202236-40, M
It is really hard to figure out people....idk why they do this stuff but I know that some are fake 馃ぅ but you should not feel foolish it's happened to me a lot on web and in life....better to not have the toxic in you life anyways and I'm sure you have good peeps looking out for ya anyways馃槈
Joshua1984202236-40, M
@SW-User yeah me too and if course there will always be someone on the other side just to stir up and that's cool
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Joshua1984202236-40, M
@SW-User not much fore but I've been working on it lol it's a long road馃し
PaleandPolluted36-40, F
There has been many misleadings here, we are on an open forum where people can do strange things to each other. That to me sounds like a teenage kid with low self esteem and nothing better to do.

Unfortunately i had a popular member on here pretend to like me. I was attacked on a post and noticed someone liked it. I bought VIP and it was him.
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PaleandPolluted36-40, F
@SW-User yeah some people enjoy deceiving people. I can imagine deceiving someone who thinks they are getting away with deceiving me being fun though.
Eddiesolds61-69, M
Gosh poison is right.WTF
Eddiesolds61-69, M
@SW-User Yes we do. Well i know i do! Lol! Have a good day!
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Eddiesolds61-69, M
@SW-User Thankyou . Its going great. W9rk day is almost done. Gosh you need to get to sleep. Lol! Good night.馃
SW-User
Geeezus ..sorry that happened to you
SW-User
@SW-User Just put it down to another lesson learnt
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SW-User
@SW-User That is sad but unfortunately it's best to keep ones guard up in such cases
Miklee0251-55, F
Way too much drama for me 馃檮
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Miklee0251-55, F
@SW-User I just try not to get too close to anyone
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Beautywithin36-40, F
Someone who isn't in touch with reality if his aim is to be a big man on here 馃檮
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kodiac22-25, M
There are peeps here who measure their self worth by how popular they believe they are or how many others they can cut down . The last message tells me he isn't sorry ,because he still thinks he is a big man on campus even though he admits being a liar. It's like hey i toyed with your emotions so what. I would name and shame in pm to anyone you don't want to get played like you did
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i鈥檓 sorry to hear. i lost whom i thought was someone was good. but just have to force yourself to move on , let your heart stop caring for that person.
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@SW-User NY what about you ?
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@SW-User block him and forget about him 馃挍
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Tres1351-55, M
Just a Boy with Small cock wants to mix with the big boys on SW
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SW-User
So why post it here, isn't it between you and him??
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I hope you reported him for the sake of the rest of us...
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SW-User
What a mess insecurities make.
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Shytoshow56-60, M
That's just crazy
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@Shytoshow definitely
iamonfire69641-45, F
Looks like Wol62鈥檚 profile to me
iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User also he鈥檚 weird and I am not surprised he did this. He says one thing and does the opposite.
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iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User I get that, I am just not surprised. Sorry it happened to you though.

 
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