I’ve been thinking about this lately
I remember the first ever club I worked In , it wasn’t the most nicest experience of my life and it really effected my mental health, it sent me to therapy but there was an bar maid who was the only staff who was nice to me , she would take time to teach me how to make money and how to do makeup and how to talk to guys , she risked so much for me , the rest didn’t bother and watched me get sexually assaulted and didn’t do anything to stop it and always blamed it on me. I cried a lot and I got bullied by other girls who pretended to be my friends. I had one friend too who was really opinionated and loud and always sat alone because nobody liked how real she was but I remember I dropped $5 and she came to find me to give it back to me and she was the only one who helped me out with things whilst there and she genuinely was nice. I’m in an much better place now physically and mentally and literally. kindness goes such an long way and nobody will ever forget it if you was the only ones to be kind to them when nobody else was. I’m so happy I no longer work at that place I just described , my life is so much better now.