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A friend of mines son wants to get his driver's license.

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Let him get a license and drive the family car
No way! The liability is way to high.
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He is 16 and is autistic. If he is interested in something he zones in on it to the point of going to the bathroom in his pants. If he isn't interested then after a few minutes he is done with it. Would you let him get a driver's license if he was your kid? Put him on your insurance and let him drive your car?
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
No I absolutely would not. At the very least he would be taking classes if i had to pay for them. That’s the reason my daughter didn’t get her license and she resented me deeply for it. I took her to a church parking lot during a weekday in the summer to teach her basic driving. She got behind the wheel, I told her what to do and as she was driving slowly she was giggling like she was riding in a carnival bumper car ride. I told her to put it in park and get out. And that she would have to take lessons and they cost $300 and I would pay. She stubbornly refused and hounded me to go buy her a car & put it in her name. She refused the driving school and I refused to help her with a car. I believe she was high-functioning autistic, very smart with math, art, and music but things like this were terrible for me to deal with her. I hid my own car keys under my mattress till she graduated and moved out to college because my nephew snuck his mother’s car keys out while she was sleeping, took her car with another 14 year old kid out to a rural area over 10 miles away and ran into an electric company truck on a rural road. Knew 3 other kids who did similar things, one didn’t have a wreck but his parent caught him driving around the corner in his wife’s car when they were coming back to the house. I cannot imagine how it would have ended had I went and bought her a car and let her have at it. Probably bad because she was also easily distracted and easy to fly off the handle about minor things. My parental instincts said NO! for her safety and the safety of anyone else on the road.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Stereoguy well for one thing my daughter had seizures so she missed the driver’s ed classes at school since she hadn’t been released to drive till she was almost out of high school. I checked around and found a private driving school in this city that I would have been happy to pay for her. She thought she was too smart to take classes and I was too nervous to teach someone who wasn’t taking it seriously. I told her that a car could kill people and could take out an entire family if she had an accident by not paying attention etc. I wasn’t willing to take that kind of liability on myself and she ended up moving out of the apartment when she turned 18 and not speaking to me for nearly a year because of it. It was her way or the highway. I saw how reckless her aunts and uncles and fathers were when driving and I didn’t have the money to pay higher insurance costs because she was living with me if she had a wreck.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Stereoguy she is 42 now and does have a license and car, but then again that’s her husband’s problem. He has more money than I ever did if she wrecks and the insurance goes up.
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