Annoying & frustrating when....

Someone says they are your friend & care for u etc but when ur going through a difficult time & need a friend to talk to... they says they will only talk to u when they have time?! Thats not friendship to me!

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SW-User

They've also got to be emotionally available and have the bandwidth to listen to someone going through a tough time at the time. So if they're not up to it, that's okay. It should be understandable.

BondGirl84 · 41-45, F

@SW-User yea i titally get that, if they aren't emotionally available or capable but when i am asking for help after they offer to listen i get 'no i have no time for u'

SW-User

@BondGirl84 Then it's better to just understand and know not to count on them.

Tonydang · M

Times like that is when you know who your true friends are

Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M

True that but if they cant be there for you when need them fhen move on cause there useless to you

notsure · 56-60, M

No its definitely not you make time for friends

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