I have this friend
I found him on fb and randomly friend requested him over 13 years ago. I don't even know why I did that. He was living out of state and coincidentally had lived in the same town as me. He ended up moving back to finish school and be with his friends here. We were best friends. He was just as weird as I was. He could always make me laugh. And not heheh like HAHAH. Throughout all my relationships my boyfriends were always jealous of him and it would turn into a fight. Some of my best trips and memories are with him.
At one point we decided to date. It only lasted two weeks before I ended it. I thought we were better as friends. Our friendship ended after that. He said he needed some space which I understood. A year later he contacted me and we picked up our friendship were we left off.
A few years later we had just gone on another trip. I slept in his room he slept on the couch. It was a good trip. I came back home and about two months later I found out he got married. Sometimes I wonder if it was an arranged marriage. His friend had posted a picture. I told him congratulations anyways....but honestly I was hurt he didn't even tell me. Or that I was even invited and had to find out through someone else. It was really a surprise to me because we were involved in each others dating lives. I guess we weren't that good of friends or he doesn't want his wife to know about me. I dont know. So we stopped talking again. On New Years about a year later he messages me asking me for nudes. Obviously I told him no and that he's married.
Once of twice a year he randomly messages me. And tonight is one of those nights. Usually he asks how I'm doing and I congratulate him on his kids or whatever I hear about from mutual friends.
At one point we decided to date. It only lasted two weeks before I ended it. I thought we were better as friends. Our friendship ended after that. He said he needed some space which I understood. A year later he contacted me and we picked up our friendship were we left off.
A few years later we had just gone on another trip. I slept in his room he slept on the couch. It was a good trip. I came back home and about two months later I found out he got married. Sometimes I wonder if it was an arranged marriage. His friend had posted a picture. I told him congratulations anyways....but honestly I was hurt he didn't even tell me. Or that I was even invited and had to find out through someone else. It was really a surprise to me because we were involved in each others dating lives. I guess we weren't that good of friends or he doesn't want his wife to know about me. I dont know. So we stopped talking again. On New Years about a year later he messages me asking me for nudes. Obviously I told him no and that he's married.
Once of twice a year he randomly messages me. And tonight is one of those nights. Usually he asks how I'm doing and I congratulate him on his kids or whatever I hear about from mutual friends.
