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Why can't I have normal relationships like everyone else?

I always feel like something is wrong with me because people are nice to me for some time, then I never hear from them again and I don't know what I do wrong.
Then my parents ask me why I push most people away. Being me is terrible sometimes.
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TristanRaven · 18-21, M
Mate, if they leave, let them leave! The valuable people will stay!☺
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@TristanRaven But no one stays. 😔 I am fourteen and don't have any friends.
I know I have some friends here, but it's not the same. I want to have someone to talk to and do fun things with. I've never played sport with friends before or gone into town with friends, or anything. The last time I have a birthday party, I was 6.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Is school you only place to have to meet people? Could you join some club or group for example chess club, book club, some other hobbies or interests? Even if people don't become "friends" right away it would be good sharing interests?
TristanRaven · 18-21, M
@Manfredthemanic you should find similar kids at school☺ Be a little more open for new people!
TristanRaven · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull that's a very good advice!☺
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull Yes, I joined a club and tried talking to people in other places, but always feel stupid when I do because people think I'm weird. I can't help it. I do everything people tell me.
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@TristanRaven I tried to, but a girl I asked on a date went with me, but won't talk to me now, and a boy asked me to help with mathematics and blocked my number and avoids me at school. I joined a club, even though it's hard for me, and that was no good.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic What club did you join? Was it in school or out?
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull I joined a since club, then tried a music club in school. The library had a social club for kids my age and it was hard, but I tried.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic That was really brave, that's braver than I'd be; I'm not very comfortable in big groups either. When we got married there was just the registrar, two witnesses and me and my husband. I didn't want a "big wedding" 😰
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull Yes, fluffy. Thank you. I think big weddings are too long anyway.
When I was there, I was very uncomfortable and didn't eat. Then I was melting down bevause I didn't eat when I got home.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Ours was very quick! It was "let's get this over and go to Gregg's for a coffee and a bacon roll!"!!! I told the registrar if we could have got married via the internet I would have😆😆😆
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull I'm happy that you found someone to do that with you, Fluffy? Greg is a food place, isn't it? One time, I asked someone "who is Greg?" 🙈
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Yes, you can get coffee, soup, sandwiches, rolls, sausage rolls, cakes etc. We sat in but at the moment some are just doing takeaway 😟
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull I don't think I would be allowed any of that, Fluffy. 🙈
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic It's not paleo, is it......😉
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull No, Fluffy. Maybe soup, but not if they make it with milk.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic I'll have to make soup soon, haven't done it for ages! 🥣🥣🥣🥣🥣🥣🥣🥣🥣
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
@Fluffybull You make a lot of soup. 🙈 Thank you for talking to me even though it's late in Scotland.