Wouldn't you tell someone they got it wrong? For the last 3 years or so I've been telling a...

Well it’s not really a big issue in the scheme of things, is it?

And if he thinks you’re the sort of person to blow things out if proportion he might leave it be.

Classified · M

He just likes his happy birthdays spread out a little 😌

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

It seems to me, that resolving that the FIRST time it happened, might have been easier than... 3 years later. Lol! I wouldn't see the harm in saying, "Thank you, but my actual birthday is tomorrow." I don't think that would have caused any hard feelings... 😁🥳

dirge

maybe he's impressed that you remember well enough to say it, but don't know him well enough to know when it actually is.

Freeranger · M

In my paltry estimation the question is one of value. They hold you in high regard. That to me is actually.....your own personal gift and reward.

IsabelBradford · 46-50, M

I’d tell them nicely but I wouldn’t hesitate about it. There’s no need not to tell them.

PhoenixPhail · M

Some people get embarrassed over the smallest things.

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PhaqueYou · M

Omg it's the end of the world...

SW-User

I can't see a problem.. Its nice you remembered, and all he needed to say is, "thank you so much, but actually it's tomorrow not today"

REMsleep · 41-45, F

Your coworker is silly. Don't waste time worrying about silly people. Thats how you have to live, if someone is full of nonsense thinking just tell them once, " hey you should have told me all this time".
Then move on. Its a non issue and no big deal.