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Ending a 12 year friendship.
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BalmyNites · F
I would just take a break, you don’t have to end the friendship
If it was just a short while ago he lost his parents, he’s still grieving & people do strange things
Put some space between you both & see how you feel once he’s sorted himself out 💜
If it was just a short while ago he lost his parents, he’s still grieving & people do strange things
Put some space between you both & see how you feel once he’s sorted himself out 💜
dale74 · M
Maybe you should tell him that you think you needs some psychological counseling before y'all could ever move further this would at least get him to talk to a shrink and if you are both doing shrink stuff you would be able to explain to the shrink that you're not interested in them as anything more than a friend this could get him the true help he really needs. He also need to be careful because somebody that's been through that quite a bit ordeal could also be suicidal
Always trust yourself first. You know this person really well, this isn't like taking a chance on someone you just met. You are doing what you need to do to protect yourself.
Maybe--- saying you have problems of your own might back him off a bit. You have problems but you don't want to get bogged down discussing the problems right now.
Maybe--- saying you have problems of your own might back him off a bit. You have problems but you don't want to get bogged down discussing the problems right now.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
His brain has gone into make-some-kids-before-I-die mode. If you're not interested in him, just move on. Real guy/girl friends don't flirt a little bit, that just means that one person is attracted
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
People grieve differently. I'm sure he'll look back at this years later and feel some time of way. 12 years is a long time to end a friendship especially when someone is going through such a hard time. Give yourself space. He's just looking for ways to fill a void.
Wiseacre · F
I feel sad for this guy...he needs a counsellor.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
He needs help
You need distance
You need distance
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