To support them, to have the same values and encourage them to be the best they can be! To encourage them to serve God to their highest ability. To be honest with them even if they don't like it. To treat them the way you want to be treated.
They have my support, even when things get tough. I will give an honest opinion if asked but not unless I am asked. I show them that I care by actions, by time I freely give to them, not by material things.