Would you find it rude if during a normal conversation here someone asks if you’re a moody girl/guy and when you ask why they’d ask you such a thing they tell you they think you are, yet they only just started talking to you and have nothing to base it on? Then when you don’t bother responding to who finds you moody for no reason, they message you saying they knew you’d stop talking to them based on their race..?
..Yeah, there’s nothing I value more in a friendship than basically being called a moody racist 😑🙄 Anyone who knows me knows I am far from that.
@TheGoodGuyI was intentionally ignoring him. I expressed how I felt and he didn’t see what was wrong with it. But he’s not a nasty person, it just had me livid when he commented(by mess) that I didn’t respond b/c of his race. That’s not me at all.
Lik the meme. It doesn't matter what anyone else says, it is what you feel that is important. Someone cannot know your behaviours based upon one brief conversation. Forget them. Sounds like a big chip upon their shoulder. Have a good day.
@PoetryNEmotionThank you, I hope you have a good one too 🙂
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I would tell him if I was or was not and like you may have asked why they were asking. I would reply if they said they thought I was moody with what you said in a netrual way something like: I think is too early for you to determine that and I don't believe that I usually am. He should not have assumed things, however. Assuming it was race based was uncalled for.
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yep.... some guy decided to make up a story about me on here when the truth is he was stalking and gathered info from my posts on the public forum, blocked and reported straight away. I seriously don’t get losers like that ..... the truth is none of us know who we really are on here and to make assumptions is just lame lol ..... the same happens in real life too. So many people get over familiar and think they know a person from one 5 minute conversation..... I think they are lonely and want friendship but have a very weird way of expressing it. Human behaviour fascinates me! Lol 😝
@seeandhearIt was asked after a brief normal chat. Earlier in the convo was asked if I had something serious going on in my life b/c he had a “feeling” and I told him I did not. He did suggest early on that I would gradually stop chatting b/c of his race since others have. Later he basically said told you so when I ignored his messages after offending me.
@EndlessHorizonI respect your opinion, but you don't find it rude if someone suggests you’re being racist for not responding to them after they offended you?
@MellyMel22 I respect yours also. I understand how you could see it as rude. It's not a crazy opinion. My reaction is just more like "wow, that person is damaged" instead of just finding it rude.
I see people using that race card a lot if you don't agree with them. That is all they have and at this point they just screwed up and they don't have a leg to stand on
