Why or how did your last friendship end?

This guy I cared about very much just ended our friendship. I can admit my faults and issues, I can even say my reactions were not good. But how the hell can a person accuse me of being selfish of my desires when he would initiate them in the first place. Why touch me, get me hot, then expect me to just go cold?..all because they say they are exhausted. Why the fuck did you start in the first place if you knew you were too tired to finish??? If you know my sexuality isn't like that. I apologized for having my feelings and desires, but he blamed me for not controling them in the way he controls his. Needless to say... He didn't even want to talk about it like adults. Very sad. Loved him dearly and I was always proud of how hard he worked.