LaReina · 36-40, F
This guy I cared about very much just ended our friendship. I can admit my faults and issues, I can even say my reactions were not good. But how the hell can a person accuse me of being selfish of my desires when he would initiate them in the first place. Why touch me, get me hot, then expect me to just go cold?..all because they say they are exhausted. Why the fuck did you start in the first place if you knew you were too tired to finish??? If you know my sexuality isn't like that. I apologized for having my feelings and desires, but he blamed me for not controling them in the way he controls his. Needless to say... He didn't even want to talk about it like adults. Very sad. Loved him dearly and I was always proud of how hard he worked.
silliness78 · 46-50
My last friendship ended because I was the one always doing the chasing, making plans, following through and etc. I stopped talking to a friend almost two years so far, but recently she mentioned she missed hanging out so I made it attempt to say hey lets go out to dinner. Well she said she had a bad cold. I said "well make sure you let me know when your cold is gone" so a week or two went by, and I didn't hear anything. This was in September. I am most definite her cold is gone. So she had her chance. She is a cold person, never keeps in touch. I also stopped talking to one of my best friends. That was hard, but became easier this past week due to him being a jerk, and treating me like lower than someone he doesn't even like. He calls me a good friend, but treats me like crap. Ignores my questions (work related, career related, web-base related, recommendations related) you name it, he ignores me. I am fed up. Two years of that friendship, I have zero patience left. He is wishy-washy, some days I feel like we are friends mutually, and other days I feel he hates me or can't stand me.
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@SW-User that happened to me before to. it sucks wanting to be friends with someone who stops caring. had that happen to a friend of mine in hs. he started to drink and hang with a different crowd changed his personality and me and my brother and another friend all got the one over and pushed away.
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@SW-User true👍🏼
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well that would have been an online friendship.. person lied like crazy for 2 years and didnt want drama for the lifestyle she was living. just one of those girls that was playing a lot of men. gave me huge trust issues when dealing with people online as they arent usually who they try to make themselves out to be. some people live double lives.
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
Strawberry9999 · 31-35, F
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I'm a shithead that doesn't know how to express my feelings like a grown-up.