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calicuz · 56-60, M
That's why we refer to those people as selfish. They not only don't take the other into account, but they fail to take the individuals loved ones into account.
Example: I really hated a coworker one time, but then it hit me, why should I spend so much energy hating this guy, when clearly he has children, parents, siblings, friends and wife who love him. I was literally outnumbered in the hate department, so I came to the conclusion that I shouldn't hate that guy anymore. It was simply a clash of personalities on my part, and that was something I had to work on.
Example: I really hated a coworker one time, but then it hit me, why should I spend so much energy hating this guy, when clearly he has children, parents, siblings, friends and wife who love him. I was literally outnumbered in the hate department, so I came to the conclusion that I shouldn't hate that guy anymore. It was simply a clash of personalities on my part, and that was something I had to work on.



