This woman at work… makes me feel weird sometimes

So there is this woman at work who joined our team ..

In the beginning, I really liked her.. I felt we were very similar, crazy.. but she was an even more intensified version of me.. I was shocked there was such thing lol

Then I sort of started drawing boundaries for many reasons but also because she has not been nice to several people and while I know she is not mean on purpose, I didn’t like it.. and several other reasons when she pissed me off personally and not others..

But also, at the same time, i felt she was too insistent, and emotional, dramatic and I am like.. nah.. I need peace.. especially that I felt she was a bit too demanding with attention and still sort of is but less.. like the other day she messaged me on teams and I was busy so I did not answer then I called her after work and she was like: i thought you were ignoring me 🥔🤷🏽‍♀ and I was like, sometimes when I am at work, I am actually busy working! 🥔🤷🏽‍♀

For some reason though she insists treating me like she trusts me .. she approached me recently and because i felt bad for her and felt she was also very lonely and very stressed.. I sort of let her in again.. but still drew some boundaries..


But sometimes i feel the way she acts is weird.. like she says, you liked so and so on LinkedIn .. or when we meets posts online that I am “her favorite person” which is yes flattering but makes me feel like she can be way too intense and fast with her emotions, or sends me reels about being so close, besties etc

I do think she is a good person but really needs some mental help (i mean like all of us, I also need it) but she definitely makes me feel weird, awkward, or suspicious sometimes with her over friendliness with me and intensity of emotions..

Sometimes I feel she is the type or person who could commit a crime, like murder me some day lol but that’s probably me watching too many crime shows..