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My mom got married last year September 30th and 9 months into her marriage her husband the person who is suppose to be “my step dad” cheated on her because she was busy with her family because my grandpa was in the hospital and her brother was going through a divorce so she wanted to help her so her husband found this new girl

Since than every time he has been coming back around
He came to my sisters kindergarten graduation in June
He came to her birthday in July
He came to there anniversary in September
He came for Halloween in October
And
Thanks giving in November
But he kept going back to this girl because he believed there “marriage was over”

Yes she thinks she shouldn’t have taken him back all this time but when you marry someone you marry them through good and bad and she wanted to be a good person and try to fix her marriage

But what I’m trying to get to is

When they were married and even dating
She gave him everything

She would buy him new clothes all the time
She would let him use her credit cards to run her business
She would always make sure his laundry is done
Would get him warm dinners for when he was home
Coffee in the morning
Groceries in the house
And all that he had to do is pay $1000 in rent which isn’t even half

But apparently she was a horrible wife
What do you think?
Men (some of them) when they get all the service from their wives, start thinking that's its their right. But right and duties go hand in hand.
If one wants to enjoy their rights,they need to do their duties too.
Women (some of them), find this quality of men returning to them and seeking their attention find it irresistible and feel privileged to some extent.
Certainly, this is some kind of emotional dependence which your Mom needs too, for her own wellbeing. So, my best solution will be to let them decide what they want.
TimSummers · M
Your mom needs to find a lawyer ASAP and get a divorce. Sorry.
She’s going to get a separation agreement than take him to court for adultry @TimSummers
TimSummers · M
@Carsonlueders I wish her the best of luck

 
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