Yes, she's being honest - but honest about what? Is she truly saying, "Babe, I love you but I need something more."? Or is she saying, "Hey Babe, this is the way it's gonna be... Stand in line."?
The question then, @Trying2MakeSense0fItAll, is what comes next? It would appear that trust has been broken. How did she react when you confronted her?
@VeronicaJane She says that she still loves me and wants us to be together. However, she was also honest about the fact that she will not be able to be monogamous. She needs the sexual variety. Back then, I couldn't handle that idea, so therefore chose to end the marriage. But since then my outlook on things has started to shift. And alas, I also still love her, and our children together. So at the moment, I'm on the fence about us getting back together, but I'm also not totally opposed to it.
@Trying2MakeSense0fItAll I realize your conversation with @VeronicaJane was a while ago and that 'things' might have changed since then. I'm not judging your decision, but has she said why (after all this time in a good (?) marriage does she suddenly want 'variety'? AND: What did she think would happen to your love for her (talking about the confrontation)? Has she had a change of 'love' for you since your acquiesence to her cuckolding you? Has she set you 'free' to make your own decisions about sex with others and still remain with you in marriage? These are the 'fall-out' questions that I'd like to know for my own marriage situation. - Thanks.
