Yes, she's being honest - but honest about what? Is she truly saying, "Babe, I love you but I need something more."? Or is she saying, "Hey Babe, this is the way it's gonna be... Stand in line."?
The gf “hotwifing” thing is a very intriguing & hot idea to me but I have other thoughts about hotwifing…
If you’re a couple and both sometimes want to be with other people then maybe just have an open relationship and not get married.
Of course the idea (rather than the reality) of hotwifing may be better for someone or the couple, depending on their personalities & securities/insecurities & relationship dynamics.
@VeronicaJane no intentional emasculation going on here. She know's that's a sure fire way of pissing me off. She cheated, I found out, confronted her, she spilled the beans.
The question then, @Trying2MakeSense0fItAll, is what comes next? It would appear that trust has been broken. How did she react when you confronted her?
@VeronicaJane She says that she still loves me and wants us to be together. However, she was also honest about the fact that she will not be able to be monogamous. She needs the sexual variety. Back then, I couldn't handle that idea, so therefore chose to end the marriage. But since then my outlook on things has started to shift. And alas, I also still love her, and our children together. So at the moment, I'm on the fence about us getting back together, but I'm also not totally opposed to it.
