When I turned 13, my parents told me that I was old enough to decide for myself when to pee or poo my pants, and old enough to decide when it was OK to wet my bed.I simply had to agree to do all of my own laundry, including my bedsheets, every Saturday before I did anything else. I've been doing it for so long now that I sometimes don't even think about it until I'm already going in my pants. I wet my bed every night without waking up, too.
When I visit my parents, my pants are often wet or I have a load in my underpants. Sometimes I wear diapers and sometimes just my underpants, I like both. My parents make sure when I come home to visit that there are goodnites handy for me.
