I Am Still Paddled

@hippyjoe1955 no. I mean I've been good and haven't gotten paddled in a while.

@Klt3sHottie That is a good thing!!! Some girls act up so they can be paddled so I never know.

@hippyjoe1955 I understand where you are coming from on that.

@Klt3sHottie I am a spanker with a wife that needs a regular spanking to remain centered.

@hippyjoe1955 your wife sort of sounds like me. I sometimes need a spanking to be recentered. We used to do weekly maintenance. That became impractical with my husband's work schedule.

@Klt3sHottie yes. We try to spank every Saturday evening. Not always possible but most of the time. She does need it and her life falls apart quickly without it.

@hippyjoe1955 I can definitely relate.

@Klt3sHottie I'm a big fan of maintenance spankings. With it done the right way and in the right mindset, it can be sooo beneficial!

@TommyBoy AGREED!For me it was a way to stay in a submissive mindset and keeping me from getting emotionally overwhelmed. I miss that so much.

@Klt3sHottie Yes! Being reminded and kept in that mindset is important, I feel. And having scheduled time with your top is huge. Time for just the two of you to strengthen your bond and dynamic.

@TommyBoy I would love to copy and paste this and send it to my husband over email. It's perfect. I think he would understand the importance of maintenance if he reads this. But I will not do this without your permission.

@Klt3sHottie By all means! Go right ahead :)

@TommyBoy thank you!

@TommyBoy why are you that’s sick