I dont understand squirting

Im tired of my bf telling me to make a mess. Im not a squirter, i never have been. Ive done it by accident a few times with my vibrator and im still convinced its because i had to actually pee. Its wasnt urgent enough for me to stop so i kept going and it just came out when i came. I hear all the time that squirt is just pee and all the videos he sends me as references, it looks like how i pee if ive had a shit ton of water. Like that kinda pee that sounds like a waterfall. So i need to know if im bugging and these "squirters" are just peeing. Its fine if thats the case, i dont mind chugging a bunch of water before hand, but i dont like feeling like im doing something wrong when hes just fucking me and i dont "make a mess" like the people in the videos. Just "relax and let it happen" doesnt work for me. I dont even cum off penetration, i need clit stimulation too.

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AbstractWave · 61-69, M

Over the years I’ve had sex with a lot of women. Many were very wet but there is only one that I’d say squirted on me and it was from my torso all the way to my feet, I was soaked. Then all over my face and neck when I went down on her. Some of it was white but a lot of it was clear like a healthy pee but all mixed together. I stimulated her clitoris well and I don’t know if it made a difference but I think she did a vinegar douche before I got there because the big red bag was still hanging up in the bathroom and some of her cum had that scent. I’ve not had that happen again and I take women as they are and do what they enjoy and I’d never ask a woman to squirt.