does kneeling for a dom mean the same as submitting

dominateofyou · 2024-05-15T14:04:36-04:00

Fetish - does kneeling for a dom mean the same as submitting I have a submissive friend who says she... (22 replies).

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Kneeling for a Dom is the same as submitting to a Dom

Kneeling for a Dom is differant than submitting to a Dom

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I have a submissive friend who says she kneels for a Dom but that its not the same as submitting to him,
I disagree with that ,She says she only does it because he request her to kneel when there talking , i told her your submitting to him she says she isn't .
so will some Doms or subs give me some there thoughts about this .

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dominateofyou · 61-69, M

good explanation my understanding from his side is he is her dom she tells me he is not her dom that is where the disagreement came from . he story is she just wants to kneel for a dom and isn't submitting to him .

HootyTheNightOwl

@dominateofyou Yeah... I wouldn't be looking to involve myself in that situation - it feels too messy for my liking.

Even if you determine that it's in her best interests to have no dealings with him going forward from here (as many Dom/mes do), I wonder how diligent and truthful she would be with following that rule you have set???

If he's saying that he is her dom, I'd be inclined to believe him - after all, what does he stand to gain from lying to you??? She has vested interest in having another dom to serve when he is dark for whatever reason... yet, he has nothing to benefit him because she'll be serving two doms and you have issues with conflicting instruction to deal with.