I've been out to my wife for a few years now, though before that she pretty much knew i liked wearing lingerie. Anyway, after a start of "as long as it's not when I'm at home" she's gradually accepted my need to dress. And it is a need, not a choice. It was a choice for her, we either found a way to live together with me dressing, or we divorced. She chose the former and since then we've become much closer. I wish I'd been brave enough to come out to her years ago. Reading through some of the comments it seems there are still a number of bigots around.
