@SW-User There's nothing wrong with you at all! It's who you are and what you like. I understand where you're coming from. The group I'm in told us no major changes such as body piercings, hair cuts, new tattoos. It sucks having to change for them, but, I have to since I signed the contract. My family and everyone around me are pretty religious, so I get a bit of judgement for a lot of things I wear. Are you allowed to wear what you want at the job? If your job doesn't really have a strict dresscode, go for it. That's easier said that done I know. I personally don't find anything wrong with wearing men's and women's clothes. I'm the same way with clothes too! Some days i want to be super girly, while other days I'll wear clothes I got from the men's section. I use to try to draw as little attention to myself as i could and stay hidden, but it was miserable. From my experience, after wearing and doing what I wanted more often, I became immune to the rude comments. Try not to let their negativity change what you really want to do. I wish things didn't have to be so copy paste. As long as it causes no harm in the job, I don't understand what the problem is with them :/