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Is always dressing up a bad thing? I am always extremely overdressed. I love it!

I often feel powerful and confident, thought sometimes I feel like I can be accidentally intimidating (I’m 6 foot tall”). I’ve learned to be a little extra friendly or goofy with new people so they don’t get that impression.

When I’m feeling low self esteem sometimes I feel too big, and get very self conscious about being larger than other women. But usually I can get out of that headspace by putting on a badass outfit that only a very tall statuesque woman could pull off.
.My parents are extremely rich. I grew up rich.
I am dressing up everywhere (even for grocery shopping ). The whole shebang, satin/leather/shiny pants/skirts, satin/silk blouses, pantyhose, shapewear, high heels, full make up on, be it morning, noon or evening.
Most of my outfits are well-coordinated in terms of color
I love my style and get lots of compliments on my clothes. . But I moved here in this smallish town about a year ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. My clothing makes me stick out like a sore thumb in this town. I am always dressed up to the max, on high heels, full make up on.

However, some acquaintances here in this town think I overdress for daily activities. What's your opinion on the topic, does dressing up harm my image? Will people think I am stuck up? Do I make a mistake by overdressing?

On the other hand I feel confident this way, so i don't want to dress down .
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Sinead65 · 61-69, F
You are a giant goddess LaLa. I am mesmerized by you. You are absolutely fabulous! Sounds like these people in your town may be intimidated by how you dress and carry yourself. Then when you dress as they do, they feel more comfortable. Clearly the issue is theirs. They should be saying "you dress so beautifully". They sound a bit jealous.
LaLa81 · 41-45, F
@Sinead65 Thanks for your support.