Do you care about your appearance much?

I think a lot about what other people will think about my outfits/how I look, I even really cringe if my girlf doesn’t dress nicely if we’re going out together. Do you place a lot of importance in these things?

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Not at all. The older I'm getting the more I care about me and my partner to feel [i]comfortable[/i].

Last summer he wore shorts with knee high blue socks with chickens on. 🐤🐤🐤
I couldn't care less. Because I know he was comfortable and he likes to wear funny things too, he's very goofy.

I just fint it attractive how confident and relaxed he is.

I love that he always want me to feel comfortable too. For example he told me years ago that I don't need to wear high heels for his account, he think I'm just as sexy in tennis shoes or flat sandals and he think it's more important that I'm comfortable.

Same thing with makeup. Or tight clothes. He don't expect me to wear that.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Those socks sound hilarious! That’s good that he likes you to be comfortable! I prefer my girlf to look good rather than being comfortable though. 😬@Queendragonfly

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Strongtea Yeah that's a self esteem issue if you think other men's view on your girlfriend reflects what you're worth.

But you're just 22-25. Many men that age are self consious and it makes them think a lot of "What will others think of me if my girlfriend is wearing that?" you'll grow out of it when you hit 30-35.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Oh ok@Queendragonfly