Men's wardrobe dilemma?

Please be kind to me, I am a man and I'm not trying to make any gender statements, I just look unusual and need advice. I am 5 ft 6 and a little under 200 lbs. Because of this my chest area is enlarged but the rest of me is proportional. Then my face I have that typical white male look.

Problem is:

>If I wear loose t-shirts my man breasts stick out and everyone starts reacting.

>If I wear a buttoned shirt over my t-shirt, then people think I'm a cop because of the overall look and that is even more awkward.

Usually I'm ok with looking more loose.

I wish I could afford a car to not walk around as much.

I am just going to stay in and produce things for the time being I guess.

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LilMissAnonyMOUSE · F

You know what? I feel you're a nice person and don't deserve to be feeling insecure about your body type or how you may look to other people.If I were you I won't give a damn what people have to say. You have to ignore their words or stares, they don't pay your rent nor feed you, who cares what strangers say?

What you can't give up is the walking around as that will make you lose weight to help gain back your health. A car is convenient but you need to move.If being overweight is bringing you down , be your own hero and get yourself out of the situation by exercising until you reach the weight you're comfortable in doing moderate exercise and moderate eating. Consult with your doctor to help guide you.

And as for the clothes to wear, wear what makes you feel comfortable, don't dress for other people. Goodluck 😊

Lilnonames · F

Start exercising go to a gym or look online

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