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What does the term crossdressing mean in general society

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross-dressing
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This post does not necessarily reflect or express the views or beliefs of its author , it is just a general consensus of how society in general may view those who live the lifestyle based on some of the basic moral , social and religious belief systems set by society in general.

Please do not take any offense , it is in no way the intent of the author to judge , shame , insult , knock , put down , dehumanize , ridicule , humiliate , or in any other way shape or form disrespect anyone who lives this lifestyle because I ( the author) am one who does live it and accepts those of you out there that do for whatever reason and to whatever end.

Well this is something I found that I feel is the way society sees us and I know that not everyone does it for the same reasons of course as the article does explain that I just took tidbits from an article I found online, the parts I either agree with and even some I may not fully agree with and or I can relate to in some way shape or form.

If you’d like to read the full article in all its parts then go to the link above.

Cross-dressing is the act of wearing items of clothing and other accoutrements commonly or typically associated with the opposite sex within a particular society. Cross-dressing has been used for purposes of disguise, comfort, and self-expression in modern times and throughout history.

The term cross-dressing refers to an action or a behavior without attributing or implying any specific causes for that behavior. It is often assumed that the connotation is directly correlated with behaviors of transgender identity or sexual, fetishist, and homosexual behavior, but the term itself does not imply any motives and is not synonymous to one's gender identity.
(and this is why I don’t personally agree with or associate what I do with the basic crossdresser term).

Almost every human society throughout history has had expected norms for each gender relating to style, color, or type of clothing they are expected to wear, and likewise most societies have had a set of guidelines, views or even laws defining what type of clothing is appropriate for each gender.

There are many different kinds of cross-dressing and many different reasons why an individual might engage in cross-dressing behavior.
Some people cross-dress as a matter of comfort or style(me) , or out of personal preference for clothing associated with the opposite sex. In this case, a person's cross-dressing may or may not be apparent to other people. Some people cross-dress to shock others or challenge social norms.


Some people who cross-dress may endeavor to project a complete impression of belonging to another gender, including mannerisms, speech patterns, and emulation of sexual characteristics. This is referred to as passing or "trying to pass" depending how successful the person is.

Sometimes either member of a heterosexual couple will cross-dress in order to arouse the other. For example, the male might wear skirts or lingerie and/or the female will wear boxers or other male clothing.

A transvestic fetishist is a person (typically a heterosexual male) who cross-dresses as part of a sexual fetish.

Others may choose to take a mixed approach [c=#003BB2](me) , adopting some feminine traits and some masculine traits in their appearance. For instance, a man might wear both a dress and a beard. This is sometimes known as genderfuck.[/c]
(personally I prefer to refer to it as femanine expression myself).

In most parts of the world it remains socially disapproved for men to wear clothes traditionally associated with women. Attempts are occasionally made, e.g. by fashion designers, to promote the acceptance of skirts as everyday wear for men. Cross-dressers (typically men) have complained that society permits women to wear pants or jeans and other masculine clothing, while condemning any man who wants to wear clothing sold for women.

Cross-dressing is cited as an abomination in the Bible in the book of Deuteronomy (22:5), which states: "A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing, for the Lord your God detests anyone who does this".

What do you think.
Sorry, I keep adding stuff as I find it.
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For me, I prefer “genderfluid” to “genderf*ck”.

Make it out of a plaid and go to Scotland, and call it a skirt- and you’ll find out quickly that it’s a tartan and a family renowned kilt worn without underwear (regimental) and worn with shoes known as “Ghillies” that are much the same for men or women.
Gillian · 46-50, T
@wistful @Highonheels I think genderf*ck has a slightly different meaning. I'm not the expert on all the terms and labels that we all hate so much, but one thing I do stand by is my definition and my association with being gender-fluid.

In that explanation above, they gave an example of a guy wearing a dress and a beard at the same time. To me, this is more of a f*ck everyone...this is what I'm comfortable with, this is how I'm going to dress. I am both male and female and they are both parts of me.

For me (and I've put out many many posts and stories of this) it's about feeling part of both genders and being able to switch between both at any stage without effort. As a male, I do look and act very feminine. That's just who I am and my personality. But I still identify myself as a guy in real life. I don't really make any connection or preach my femininity to anyone (of course, being closeted is testament to that). When I do feel female, there is not any acknowledgement or reference to me being male at all. Except for one unfortunate part of me, I don't think you'd be able to tell I'm a guy.

My two personalities are not any different to be honest. I still speak and act the same. Except for the whole "why is it okay for girls to wear guys clothes and not okay for guys to wear girls clothes" argument. But that's a whole other discussion.

As a female, I just look a lot more naturally feminine and am able to wear more socially acceptable clothing. As a guy, I just don't look much like a guy lol, because I still wear ladies jeans and jackets and whatever isn't too obvious.

There are too many terms and labels and every one is going to start a conversation, discussion or an argument. To me, I don't really care about labels. I know what I am and people here know who I am. I only take offense and time to stand up for us when the ignorant and discriminatory trolls stick their noses and big mouths where they shouldn't be.

Damn...this has turned into one of my famous rants again. Lol. Yay! It's been a while.
Highonheels · 51-55, M
@Gillian it ok hun and I agree with what your saying you have your owns terms and society has thier a you feel gender fluid which is fine with me it makes perfect sense, for me I feel like I’m femanine expressive, we all have our own views on what it is that we do , no matter what society calls it or how they view it.